grieving
there was a car crash………………..I am again left with the question WHY???????????
I am upset and hurt. I am greatful for the kindness I was shown in such a short time. Inshaallah I will post again soon. Right now I am hurt. Not like with Ken. I had no history with this man. HECK, I never even got to make love to him. BUT I did share a wonderul 10 days with him and for that I am greatful.
Oh, Sweetie, I am so sorry! I am praying for you.
Asalamu Alaykom,
Sweetie…your fiance? He died? Subhanallah. The way I read this…it’s what I don’t want to think. I’m hoping that there is some other way to read what you wrote. Subhanallah.
If this has happened, I am heartbroken for you. Sabr. Sabr. Ya rab! Sabr for you.
I know you were in love. I know you shared dreams and hopes with this man. If you are grieving his loss then you are also greiving the loss of hopes and dreams.
I know you were halal in your pursuits. Mashahallah you were entering into this for all the right reasons. I hope you can look back on the goodness shared and not be bitter for the goodness not given. There was so much good in such a short time. Alhumdulillah for all the time.
May you see everyone you love in Jennah.
From Allah we come and to Allah we return.
I love you. I am here for you. Please take care of yourself. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
How very sad. My thoughts and prayers and with you, your kids and his family.
God bless,
PM
I regularly read your blog. I never feel any compulsion to comment cuz I’m plain lazy.
But now…inna lilla wa inna ilayhi raji’oun.
This life is so temporary, SUBHANALLAH.
With that I offer my condolences to you and more importantly my prayers.
Just keep all your faith and reliance with Allah swt, wholeheartedly.
As Salaamu Alaikum My Dear:
“From Allah (swt) we come, and to Him we return”
I am so sorry my friend and sister. I just don’t know what to say. Hugs to you.
Oh sweetheart may Allah make it easy for you and increase you ameen. I am grieving for you and your family. If there is anything we can do for you please do not hesitate to contact me – truely. Dana.
Oh sis, what a test. May Allah rectify your affairs and give you swift guidance, ameen.
As Salaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatulahi Wa Barakatu
Inna lilah wa ina alayhi rajioon . May Allah easy your pain and give you sabr Ameen.
salam’alaykum
i know you a little bit trought ,yout post ,im from france and you are in my du’a,
it’s the “qadar” and Allah is knowing “why”
ina lilah wa ina ilayhi raji’oun.
you have to be near Allah in this moment for to accept that decret.
sorry for may bad english.
Bismillaah
Assalaamu alaikum!
Laa ilaha illa ar-raajioon. May Allah replace your sadness and hardship with something better immediately. I am so sorry for your loss.
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ASA,
Thank you all for your comments. I am doing quiet well really. I guess things were so new there was not enough time to have a strong bond or closeness. I guess that is why I am not so tore up. I mean I am hurt. I did love him but I didnt have time to LOVE him.
I think I am more scared with what I am goign to do now. I am back in the states and LOST. My kids love it and in some ways I do too but do I really want to stay here………..again thanks
Subhan’Allah, my sister. May Allah guide and comfort you through this very difficult time. I can’t believe it. I don’t even know what to say. You and your family are in my duas.
Inna lilla wa inna ilayhi raji’oun and BIG (((HUGS)) to you in this difficult time.
assalaamu alaikum
inne lillahi wa inna lillahi rajioon
may Allah keep you strong and steadfast and may He guide you to what is best for yourself and your children in this dunya and the akhira
Bismillah.
Assalamu Alaikum ukhti.
Inna lillah wa inna ilahay raji’oon! I am deeply saddened to hear this news. Know, may Allaah have mercy on you, that this is a test from Allaah subhana wa ta’ala, so have sabr because Allaah loves as-sabiroon.
I ask Allaah to forgive your husband of his sins and grant him jannatul firdaws. Ameen.
And may he re-unite you two in Jannah. Ameen ya Rabb.
As Salaamu Alaikum Sis,
Inna lilah wa ina alayhi rajioon —— you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers…
Nasiriyah
Salaam alaikum
Ina lillah wa inna ilayhi raji’oon. May Allah make it easy on you. You will be in my prayers.
Inna ilahi wa inna ilayi rajoun.
Assalamu alaykum sister. I am so sorry for your losses. May Allah ease your pain and heal your heart, Ameen.
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